October 19, 2008

My roommate Valerie and I met a few of our mutual girlfriends at Sangria, a favorite tapas restaurant of ours for brunch on Sunday morning. The offer bottomless sangria as part of their brunch menu. We sat outside on the patio eating, drinking and chatting away for a few hours. After brunch we went to the Stoneleigh for a relaxing afternoon of massages and girl talk.
We had been gossiping a bit and I told them that I was suspicious since Adam has asked me to dinner that night. He doesn’t usually ask me on dates. When he had asked me earlier in the week, my first thought was “Yes! That means I don’t have to make dinner on Sunday night.” Then I started getting a bit suspicious.
After we had our massages, we sat in the lounge area sipping on our honey water and then enjoyed their hot tubs with a glass of wine. We had been relaxing together for about an hour when I got out to call Adam to get details about our date. I called him and asked him if we were still having dinner, what time dinner was and if there was anything he wanted me to wear. Later he said he “played coy” by being complacent about the whole thing and saying that we could still go to dinner, around 7ish and I could wear whatever I wanted.
I walked back to the girls and told them I didn’t think it was going to happen that night. They reassured me that he was just messing with my head.
We finished up at the spa and parted ways. I went home, packed up my stuff for the night and drove to Rockwall. When I got there, Adam’s truck wasn’t in the parking lot. I figured he had gone to Walmart to do his grocery shopping while he was waiting on me. I drove to Walmart and didn’t see his truck in the parking lot so I went back to his place. I walked in and could tell he hadn’t been there yet.
I grabbed my iPod and sat on the patio listening to my book for about 30 minutes while I was waiting for him to get home. He came outside on the patio to check on me and asked me if I still wanted to go to dinner, if so, when. I told him I was starving and ready to go now.
I came inside and stepped into the bathroom to freshen up. I washed my hands and came out of the bathroom and Adam was kneeling on the floor next to his desk. He was also close to the trashcan so I thought he was looking for something in there. He grabbed my hand, looked into my eyes and proposed.

I said yes. Then asked if I could call my mom. My brother and father were out playing golf, so mom was the first to know. Then we called his sister and parents. We made a few other phone calls separately- I called Heather and asked her to dinner the following night, called my mother’s parents, Chris and Valerie all before we went to dinner.
We went to Luigi’s across the street and Adam was amazed at how little of an appetite he had because he had been so nervous. I on the other hand was starving!
After dinner we came back home and Adam was on the phone until almost 10pm calling his family. Listening to him wore me out!